For grown-ups
How to use this with a child or a class
You do not need to know any philosophy. You need about ten minutes and the willingness to say “I don’t know” out loud.
The ten-minute ritual
- Read the question onlyRead the title. Stop. Ask what they think before anything else on the page is read. This is the whole trick.
- Read the story togetherKeep it short — the story is a doorway, not the lesson.
- Do the Try it boxMoving, drawing, timing, watching. All the retention lives here.
- Ask two of the Talk about it questionsThen stop. Never resolve it. Leave the question open on purpose.
What makes a philosophy conversation with children work
- Answer with a question. “What do you mean by fair?” beats any definition you could give.
- Name the move, not the answer. “You just gave a reason — that’s what philosophers do” teaches more than praise for being right.
- Let silence sit for five seconds. Children need the gap to think inside. Adults normally fill it.
- Let them disagree with you. If they can, they have understood the page.
- Do not settle it. A page that ends in a conclusion teaches that thinking is a race to a finish line.
Themes, if you need them for planning
| Big idea | Theme | Curriculum area it usually sits in | Ages | Opening question |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| What makes someone a friend? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 5–8 | Can you be friends with someone you never see? |
| Is brave the same as not scared? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 6–9 | Can you be brave for the wrong reasons? |
| What is fair? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 6–8 | When is treating people differently the fair thing to do? |
| What makes a good day? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 6–9 | Would you rather have a very fun week or a very meaningful year? |
| Who decides the rules? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 6–9 | Is an unfair rule still a rule? |
| Do you need things to be happy? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 6–9 | Would you be happier with more things, or fewer? |
| Do animals matter? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 7–10 | Is it wrong to eat animals if you don't have to? |
| Is beautiful the same for everyone? | Beauty & Making | Art · music · creative writing | 7–10 | Can someone's taste be wrong? |
| Who am I? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 7–10 | Can you be more than one person at once? |
| How do you know you are awake? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 7–10 | Are you responsible for things you do in a dream? |
| Is it ever right to lie? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 7–11 | Is there a difference between lying and not saying everything? |
| What are mistakes for? | How We Know | Evidence · critical thinking · media literacy | 7–11 | Is a mistake only useful if you notice it? |
| Why does time speed up and slow down? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 7–10 | If nobody were bored, would time still feel slow? |
| How do you know if something is true? | How We Know | Evidence · critical thinking · media literacy | 7–10 | Is it ever right to believe something with no proof? |
| Does winning matter? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 7–10 | Can two people both play a game well and still have a winner and a loser? |
| Can anger be useful? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 8–12 | Is anger ever the right response? |
| What is art for? | Beauty & Making | Art · music · creative writing | 8–12 | Does art have to be beautiful? |
| Is being bored bad for you? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 8–11 | Is boredom a feeling, or the absence of one? |
| Does anything stay the same? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 8–12 | If every part of something is replaced, when did it stop being the original? |
| Is changing your mind weak? | How We Know | Evidence · critical thinking · media literacy | 8–12 | Is it braver to keep a promise or to admit you were wrong? |
| Is hope a plan or a feeling? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 8–12 | Is hoping for something the same as expecting it? |
| Is imagining something real? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 8–12 | Where do imaginary friends come from? |
| Who would you be if nobody could see you? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 8–12 | If nobody would ever find out, would it still be wrong? |
| Can you trust your memory? | How We Know | Evidence · critical thinking · media literacy | 8–12 | Is a vivid memory more likely to be true? |
| Is a number real? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 8–12 | Did we invent numbers or discover them? |
| How do you know I'm not pretending? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 8–12 | Do you know what anyone else is feeling, or only what you guess? |
| What counts as a person? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 8–12 | If a creature can suffer, does that make it a person? |
| Is breaking a promise always wrong? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 8–12 | Does a promise to one person ever matter more than a promise to another? |
| Should a robot have rights? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 8–12 | If it behaves exactly like a person, does that make it one? |
| Do you have a right to a secret? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 8–12 | Is keeping a secret the same as lying? |
| Is what you see all there is? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 8–11 | If your brain makes up what you see, what else might it make up? |
| Where do your thoughts live? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 8–11 | Is your mind more like a computer, a story, or a garden? |
| What is attention for? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 9–12 | Is attention something you own? |
| Did you cause that, or did it just happen? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 9–12 | Does 'cause' mean you meant it, or just that you were part of the chain? |
| Is red in the apple or in you? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 9–12 | Are colours properties of things or of perceivers? |
| Is it scary that things end? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 9–12 | If you could live forever, would that be good? |
| Should you doubt everything? | How We Know | Evidence · critical thinking · media literacy | 9–12 | Does doubting something make you cleverer? |
| Do you have to help? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 9–12 | Is there a difference between hurting someone and letting them be hurt? |
| Should you forgive someone who isn't sorry? | How to Live | PSHE · values · behaviour | 9–12 | Does forgiving mean it didn't matter? |
| Should you be allowed to say anything? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Is it worse to say something harmful, or to persuade others to believe it? |
| What is freedom? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Should you be allowed to do something that harms only you? |
| Do people who aren't born yet matter? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Can you wrong someone who does not exist? |
| Can you add to something endless? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 9–12 | Is infinity a number or a direction? |
| Who gets to decide? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Should a majority be able to decide everything? |
| Do words shape what you can think? | Who Am I | Identity · wellbeing · self | 9–12 | Can you have a feeling you can't name? |
| Is it fair to be lucky? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Can you deserve something you didn't earn? |
| What is money worth? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Why is water cheap and diamonds expensive, when water is the one you need? |
| Why is there something instead of nothing? | What Is Real | Science · reality · time | 9–12 | Is 'nothing' a thing? |
| Who owns the land? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Can you own something you will never use? |
| Do you see patterns that aren't there? | How We Know | Evidence · critical thinking · media literacy | 9–12 | Why does a lucky shirt feel like it works? |
| Which should you trust: proof or story? | Beauty & Making | Art · music · creative writing | 9–12 | Can a made-up story tell a real truth? |
| What is punishment for? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Is it fair to punish someone who will never do it again? |
| Why do people work? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 9–12 | Is work a duty or a way of getting what you need? |
| Is war ever right? | Living Together | Citizenship · rules · democracy | 10–12 | Is it worse to start a war or to let a wrong continue? |
The philosophers, for your own reference
33 thinkers, one page each, chosen so that no single tradition carries the whole subject — and so that a child meets at least one person who is not a European man. Each page names its own big question, which is the line worth reading aloud before you open the story.
- Al-Ghazali — 1058–1111 CE What do you do when you stop being sure?
- B. R. Ambedkar — 1891–1956 Is an unequal society stable, or only quiet?
- Hannah Arendt — 1906–1975 Why do good people sometimes do bad things together?
- Aristotle — 384–322 BCE How do we find out how things really work?
- Confucius — 551–479 BCE How should we live well together?
- René Descartes — 1596–1650 How do you know you are really thinking right now?
- Diogenes — c. 413–323 BCE How little do you need to be happy?
- Dogen — 1200–1253 Is now just the way you get to later?
- W. E. B. Du Bois — 1868–1963 Who are you when other people see you wrongly?
- Frantz Fanon — 1925–1961 How does being ruled change how you see yourself?
- Hypatia — c. 350–415 CE Can numbers explain the sky?
- Ibn Khaldun — 1332–1406 Why do strong groups fall apart?
- Ibn Rushd — 1126–1198 Can thinking and believing disagree?
- Ibn Sina (Avicenna) — 980–1037 CE Are you your mind, or your body, or both?
- Ibn Tufayl — c. 1105–1185 How much could you work out with no one to teach you?
- Kautilya — c. 375–283 BCE What does it take to hold a country together?
- Laozi — c. 6th–4th century BCE Is it better to push, or to let things happen?
- Marcus Aurelius — 121–180 CE What is actually up to you?
- Mencius — c. 372–289 BCE Are people born good?
- John Stuart Mill — 1806–1873 How much freedom should you have?
- Mozi — c. 470–391 BCE Should you care about everyone equally?
- Nagarjuna — c. 150–250 CE If everything depends on something else, what holds it all up?
- Nishida Kitaro — 1870–1945 What is happening before you divide things into you and everything else?
- Plato — c. 427–347 BCE Is what we see all that is real?
- Adi Shankara — c. 788–820 CE If you strip away everything you call yourself, what is left?
- Socrates — 469–399 BCE What does it mean to live a good life?
- Sor Juana Inés de la Cruz — 1648–1695 Why were girls not allowed to learn?
- Thiruvalluvar — dates unknown; often placed c. 300 BCE–300 CE What is the shortest way to say how to live?
- Wang Yangming — 1472–1529 If you know what is right, why don't you do it?
- Mary Wollstonecraft — 1759–1797 Should everyone get the same chance to learn?
- Zera Yacob — 1599–1692 Can you work out what is right without being told?
- Zhu Xi — 1130–1200 How do you find out how things work?
- Zhuangzi — c. 369–286 BCE Is a dream less real than a day?
If it goes well
You will know it worked because the child asks you something you cannot answer. Write that question down somewhere you will both see it again. It is the next lesson, and neither of you needs to have solved it.
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